The Makhenes offers a closer look at one of South Africa’s most recognisable families as they navigate life, relationships and personal challenges across three generations. At the centre of the series is actress and musician Letoya Makhene, who opens up about balancing motherhood, public life, spirituality and the realities of her personal journey, while her family members share their own experiences along the way.

Airing every Sunday at 19:00 on Mzansi Magic, the reality series also features legendary musician Blondie Makhene, sisters Pauline and Gontse, elders and the younger generation of the family. From love and healing to conflict and difficult conversations, the show gives viewers an honest look at the dynamics within the Makhene family.

We recently caught up with the eldest sister, Pauline, to talk about opening up her life to the cameras, family relationships, parenting and why viewers should tune in.

What made you say yes to doing a reality show?
I was drawn to the idea of doing a reality show by my sister, Letoya. It sounded like fun, so I agreed.

You’ve been in the spotlight since you were young. How do you feel you’ve changed over the years?
Being in the spotlight from an early age teaches you humility. You can’t remain static, so I’m constantly evolving and changing every day.

How do you handle negative attention?

I handle negative media attention by ignoring it as much as I can.

You’ve been very open about your mental health journey. What inspired that?
I’m only opening up about it now, so the experience is still very new to me. Owning your narrative prevents people from looking down on you. Otherwise, some people dismiss everything you say as “crazy talk”, and that’s the worst part. That’s what inspired me to be so open.

Has being on the show changed your relationships with your family in any way?
My relationship with my family hasn’t changed; in fact, it’s better. We’ve had a lot of meaningful offline conversations with each other.

How would you describe your parenting method?
My parenting style is simple: honest, strict, supportive, and friendly. My children live with their grandparents, so I continued with the foundation that was already there. Now that they’ve passed matric, I’m navigating life with young adults. I learn as they grow, so I’m still figuring it out along the way.

Why do you think people should watch the show?
It’s very real. We’re not pretending, this is who we are: the good, the bad, and the ugly.

How are you preserving your father’s legacy?
Not only by aligning with the right contacts, but also through music, interviews, and by helping him tell his story as we speak.

What has been the most emotional moment for you so far?
My most emotional moment so far has been dealing with what I went through 18 years ago. It was real, and speaking about it on the last episode has been so healing.

What do you think makes your family relatable?
As South Africans, we look alike, we speak alike, and we share many of the same experiences as everyone else. We’re just bolder and louder.

How have you grown since filming the show?
My personal growth since filming has been focused on putting my record company on the map. I’m so much more determined when it comes to my career.

What has the entertainment industry taught you?
My biggest lesson in the entertainment industry is: don’t be afraid. Whether you’re famous or not, people will always talk.